I'll figure it out as I go

itscarororo:

hows-your-custard:

ohhhvienna:

jigglykat:

itscarororo:

So here’s something fun I was hoping some people on here might wanna take part in…

I was talking to jigglykat in the car today about how quickly the summer’s going by and it made me wonder how people imagine the year in their head, if they do at all. I think about a calendar year visually, and…

And this one is mine! I view my calendar as a squished oval with summer and winter towards the more narrow ends. Which doesn’t quite work with how winter ACTUALLY is because it pretty much last six months here…

feelings come very strongly with how i see the weather since i’m very affected by the weather, mood wise

Okay. interesting. so, like I see a year as if I were standing on a mountain looking out over a landscape, where there are sharp points of birthdays/holidays and then sort of color/flavor blurrs for seasons (like if you were to see that season in the landscape: so, reds and oranges for fall). I generally only envision 2 seasons ahead of the now, and it’s like I could look through one season to see the next one. the mountain is now (late summer) and you don’t necessarily see the place you stand on, but you feel it. and if you’re at a lookout point on that great metaphorical mountain, you see the land in front of you, but you don’t experience it. And you can only see so far as the atmosphere/physical obstruction will let you. So, as of right now, I feel the summer (it’s hot and gross rn) and I am really excited because I can see fall in the landscape (and envision it all!) and I can sort of make out that winter is off on the horizon. And there’s birthday mountain looming quite close with halloween in the distance. 

That’s the best I can describe it, even though I don’t actually envision mountains or anything, that’s the general feeling…

neat!!  I love hearing how other people think.  I’m also adding in some of the text replies this post has gotten:

thatlaidbackdude:

"I’m Sorry Son" by Andy Marlette

thatlaidbackdude:

"I’m Sorry Son" by Andy Marlette

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Don’t let people treat you like a cigarette, they only use you when they’re bored and step on you when they’re done. Be like drugs, let them die for you.

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pyrrhiccomedy:

pervocracy:

postwhitesociety:

hm

I think the “women are mysterious” thing can also come from:
1) Women actually being quite clear, but not telling men what they want to hear.  ”She said she doesn’t want to talk to me?  So many mixed messages and confusing signals!”
2) Women not having cheat codes.  ”I tried being nice, and she didn’t have sex with me.  I tried being an asshole, and she didn’t have sex with me.  Come on, there’s got to be some kind of solution to this puzzle!”
3) Women not being a hive mind.  ”First a woman told me that she likes guys with big muscles.  Then the very next day a woman told me she thinks muscles aren’t attractive at all.  Make up your mind, women!”
4) An individual woman doing something confusing, and instead of asking “why is she doing this now?” men ask “why do women always do this?”

Don’t forget “actual unwillingness to make an effort to understand women as a result of profound and privileged laziness.” That’s actually the one I run into the most.
"Women are confusing." "No we’re not. Everything I’m saying makes linear, logical sense. I could draw you a fucking flowchart of everything I’ve just said. You just don’t want to listen to me because that would mean stirring from your stagnant, self-satisfied torpor, confident that, because I’m a woman, you don’t ACTUALLY have to think about or engage with anything I say." "Wow, like, all that? Super confusing.”

pyrrhiccomedy:

pervocracy:

postwhitesociety:

hm

I think the “women are mysterious” thing can also come from:

1) Women actually being quite clear, but not telling men what they want to hear.  ”She said she doesn’t want to talk to me?  So many mixed messages and confusing signals!”

2) Women not having cheat codes.  ”I tried being nice, and she didn’t have sex with me.  I tried being an asshole, and she didn’t have sex with me.  Come on, there’s got to be some kind of solution to this puzzle!”

3) Women not being a hive mind.  ”First a woman told me that she likes guys with big muscles.  Then the very next day a woman told me she thinks muscles aren’t attractive at all.  Make up your mind, women!”

4) An individual woman doing something confusing, and instead of asking “why is she doing this now?” men ask “why do women always do this?”

Don’t forget “actual unwillingness to make an effort to understand women as a result of profound and privileged laziness.” That’s actually the one I run into the most.

"Women are confusing." "No we’re not. Everything I’m saying makes linear, logical sense. I could draw you a fucking flowchart of everything I’ve just said. You just don’t want to listen to me because that would mean stirring from your stagnant, self-satisfied torpor, confident that, because I’m a woman, you don’t ACTUALLY have to think about or engage with anything I say." "Wow, like, all that? Super confusing.”

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so-personal:

everything personal

so-personal:

everything personal

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Anonymous asked:

if youre recovered, why dont u believe ur beautiful?

darkness-consumed-me:

A person can be recovered and still have self esteem issues.